Decide from what matters, not from urgency.
The urge
What do you want to do right now, immediately, no filter?
The cost
If you did that in the next ten minutes, what might it cost you tomorrow?
The value
What kind of person do you want to be inside this relationship?
The smallest honest move
What's the smallest action that is still true to that?
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